Every time you have a conversation with your Ex you’re not just talking about getting the kids to school on time or how much their expenses should be.  You’re re-living all of the emotions of when you were together and everything it took to break you apart.  It just takes one phrase, one look, one sigh, and a productive conversation falls apart. 

You know what you would like to say, you know what you should say, but with everything that has happened between you and your Ex, it’s really hard to get the right words to come out. Even when you or your Ex have the best intentions and make a real effort, sometimes it just doesn’t work.  Even when people try to say the right thing the language that they use doesn’t always convey what they really mean. 

That’s why putting a message into neutral, universal language can help you hear things in a different way and when a message is from a third party you automatically become more receptive to its content.  We don’t allow any comments to slip through that aren’t just about the kids.