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When things with your Ex get stressful, it will solve a lot of problems to know what is considered ‘reasonable’ when it comes to kids and finances.
Something that may seem very unfair may be what happens in every single divorce. Likewise, your Ex may say that only one outcome is acceptable and refuse to budge but that may not be true at all.
Just knowing how things go in most divorces will help you feel good about the decisions you make.
Go to Mediation!!!!
Having a schedule before you separate lets your kids know when they will get to be with Mom and when they will get to be with Dad. This allows them to process what is happening and know they are still safe.
By keeping your current goals, values, and discipline the same in both households it will also make it easier for your children. Consistency and predictability signals to them that life is going to still be the same and things will be okay.
By having an agreement in place that addresses issues before they come up, you stop a lot of fights and headaches before they happen.
*You do not need to be represented by an attorney to go to mediation. You do not need to agree to anything at the mediation. However, if you sign a mediation document it may be binding later in the proceedings. You may be able to pay an attorney to review the mediation agreement for you, even if they don’t represent you through your entire divorce.
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You will have waves of emotion and times of stress and despair. They will pass, but it will be an easier transition to your new life if you have extra support during those times. By having resources on hand when emotions become difficult it will help keep you on a better path forward and make your journey an easier one.
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Let Text Your Ex!
Of course you need to learn how to communicate with your Ex! You will!
The secret is not to let things get any worse. If you can keep the hard feelings and hurtful words to a minimum, things will be so much easier! By getting affordable help from Text Your Ex, you are setting yourself up for a better future.