Text Your Ex offers services to make life easier post-separation. We make it possible to communicate with your Ex in a clear, concise, and polite manner so that you can make the best decisions possible for your kids without conflict.
Getting through divorce and separation requires more than one service. You must put in a tremendous amount of personal work and you need a lot of external support. We would like to make your journey to your new life as easy as possible so we have gathered all of the resources you could need whether you are just separating, in the middle of your divorce, or already have a final custody order. We offer free and personalized recommendations!
Find supporting services and resources for any stage of your separation.
Find hints & tips for any issue you encounter with your Ex , your kids or your new journey.
Sample parenting plans for all age ranges and circumstances.
Books for adults and kids to help you through the transition of separation.
Whether you’re just getting started in the process of separation and divorce or everything has been finalized, it’s never too early (or too late) to find professionals and services that will make you happier and your life easier.
Whatever your co-parenting problem – you are not alone!!! You are almost guaranteed to find someone else who has dealt with an Ex like yours. It helps to hear about how others have conquered their situation (as well as get groundbreaking advice from Text Your Ex) so that you have an easier journey forward.
What do you do when you have to meet your Ex’s new partner for the first time? It will always be a big deal when your Ex gets a new Future-Ex but you’ll get through it and come out just fine! Here are five ways to handle it like a pro!
Kids need to be able to focus on themselves in order to grow up to be healthy, happy and productive humans. If they have to worry about adult relationships or divorce, it’s just too much for their brains and affects their development. Children of ALL ages need to just be kids, regardless of how their family is structured. No matter what has happened between you and your Ex, your relationship with your child is never ending and keeping it separate and apart from conflict will help your kids grow up to be well adjusted adults.
You may have a secret wish to never see your Ex again, but you know that’s not what is good for your kids. Learning how to detach yourself and keep your Ex from driving you crazy will go a long way in making everyone’s life better. Here are some tips to help you transition from wanting your Ex to be gone, to thinking of your co-parent as someone who cares about, and wants the best for your kids.
One of the biggest things holding you back is falling into old habits and patterns of communication! If you can find a way to establish better ways of communicating your life will get a lot easier. Doing the same thing isn’t going to help you so do something different, and take your Ex by SURPRISE! By catching your Ex off guard, you’ll be able to get different responses. You’ll be on your way to a new relationship where you can co-parent without conflict.
Don’t stay in the same relationship that led to your separation. When your Ex pushes your buttons and keeps making you angry, it’s a way they can stay in control and keep you tied to the relationship. Find a way to communicate with your Ex that creates strong boundaries and allows you to discuss mutual goals for your kids without the anger. As soon as you can become indifferent to your Ex’s behavior, life will be a lot easier.
When we wake up and realize life is not what we imagined it would be, it creates a split in us. The best way to heal that divide is to look deep inside and find out who you are and what you want and then you will be equipped to start down a new path. Growth is hard because it is always partnered with change and grief but it is mankind’s greatest pursuit to always be wanting to be better and find greater fulfillment.
Want to see what all of the options are for you and your kids? Parenting Plans are available by age range with developmental milestones and action plans for your kids. Want to personalize a plan so you have a solid idea to present to your attorney, mediator or Ex? Sign up for a Brainstorming Session!
Here are some fantastic co-parenting resources for helping you transition into a new life with guidance on how to deal with everything that surrounds divorce and separation. These books and podcasts are especially valuable for how to protect your children during this tumultuous time and how to make a quicker, easier, and smoother transition to your new life.
We don't just scan for 'appropriate' language but we let you say what you want and then work with you to communicate your goals. We provide interactive services for every message sent between you and your Ex.
Mediators make sure that each and every message is easily understood. We help clarify details and prevent misunderstandings. We make sure anyone would understand exactly what each person is saying.
Whether you dread any contact with your Ex or know that a certain topic is going to start a big fight - we can help. Instead of thinking about what your Ex said over and over again, contact us and we can help resolve things right away. We give you the peace of mind that any communication with your Ex will be calm and polite.
Your message goes out within 1 hour. Co-parents who are actively engaged get immediate translation in real-time without delay. Never wait for your attorney to return your call - you get professional services immediately!
It's always easier to talk to a 3rd Party about your problems than to the source of our problems. We help tamp down emotions and break the old patterns of communication. You and your Ex can listen to options with a more neutral ear and objective perspective.
Kids feel your pain; they know when their parents are mad or sad and it causes them stress. The more you can avoid conflict with your Ex, the easier it will be to work with your co-parent and life gets better for you AND your kids. We help you transition to your new role as Co-Parents conflict-free.
Is there a question you have that’s not answered? A resource you would like that is not here? Let us know what else we can provide for you.
